So long the husband is away on business or work tour, the wife keeps receiving his commands and news of well being through letters. They exchange their emotions through letters.
So long the husband and wife are not together, they indulge in looking here and there. But when they meet they become one in the wake of their separation. Similarly so long a seeker remains away from his deity Guru, he indulges in other means of spiritual
Just as a deer keeps wandering and searching for the musk that he keeps smelling and is unaware of the means to find it, so would a seeker keep wandering till he meets with True Guru and learns the way of God-realisation.
When a disciple meets with Guru, the all knowing Lord then comes and resides in the heart of the disciple. He then meditates, contemplates and worships the Master Lord as a slave and serves His command and will. (186)