The mother scolds and spanks the child but cannot tolerate anyone else scolding, spanking and loving him.
Mothers scolding and spanking of the child is for his benefit but when someone else does it, it is indeed painful.
(Although water is cold and fire is hot) falling in water drowns while jumping into fire burns a person to death. Similarly it is foolish to believe on the kindness or anger of another woman. (It is utter foolishness to lay faith on any other god/goddess
Just like mother, the True Guru makes every effort and attaches the Sikhs in the love of the Supreme Lord, the source of everything. And thus they are never infatuated or attracted by the love or anger of any god/goddess or spurious saint. (355)