Controlling her mind and with utmost determination, when a woman jumps into the pyre of her husband and self immolates herself, the whole world applauds her effort of being a loving and devoted wife.
As a brave warrior lays down his life fighting for his noble cause determinedly till the end, he is applauded here, there and everywhere as a martyr.
Contrary to this, as a thief determinedly makes up his mind to commit theft, if caught, he is jailed, hanged or punished, he is degraded and rebuked the world over
Similarly one becomes bad and wicked with base wisdom whereas accepting and abiding by Guru's wisdom makes a person noble and virtuous. A human being makes his life a success or failure according to the company he keeps or his devotion to the holy congreg