Just as a calf writhes and wriggles to meet his mother but tethered with rope makes him helpless.
Just as a person caught in forced or unpaid labour wants to go home and spends time planning while remaining in other's control.
Just as a wife separated from her husband wants love and union but cannot do so for fear of family shame and thus loses her physical attraction.
Similarly a true disciple wants to enjoy the pleasures of the refuge of True Guru but bound by his command he wanders around dejectedly in another place. (520)