The seeker woman who sheds her ego and meets with dear husband, she alone is the loved wife of the husband. One cannot get honour and respect from the Lord if one feels haughty and egoistic.
Just as clouds rain equally in all places, its water cannot climb up the mounds. Water always go and settles at lower levels.
Just as a bamboo stays in his pride of being high and lofty and remains bereft of the fragrance of sandalwood, but all big and small trees and plants absorb that sweet smell in themselves.
Similarly, to be the wife of the ocean of kindness-dear Lord, one has to sacrifice oneself and become a living dead person. Only then can one acquire the treasure of all treasures (God's name from the True Guru) and reach the supreme divine state. (662)